Why Do Black Women Nag So Much!!!!

See, you probably thought that I was about to complain about the fact that Black women have so many issues, but it is quite the contrary. This is strictly an editorial and is not to be taken as a consensus. Black women complain and nag they way they do, most of the time because of the men. What a lot of people fail to understand is that a Black woman is quicker to stick by her significant other, through thick and thin. She will still be there when he cheats, when he lies, when he needs a break, and during the good times too. You say, hey so what is the point of nagging!

A woman is only a woman, and we take in more then men do when it comes to our homes. We are the ones who tend to the home, we hardly get recognition, and we still do it day after dreary day. You have some men who will pamper his woman to any extinct, but they are a rare commodity. Yes, I said rare, because they are, most want their cake and eat it too. I think people get it misconstrued about a Black woman and her nagging.

See when we nag it is always out of love, regardless of how we display it. We believe in foundation and substance, and we want our homes, our men to do the best they can, because it benefits them as a whole. If you pay attention to what we are fussing about, it would be clear that we have nothing but his best intentions at heart. Black women go through a lot, especially when it comes to our men wanting something else, and by that I do mean a white woman.

Crystal Long said, "My boyfriend and I have been together for at least 5 years, and during that time we have had our share of problems, and around 2 years ago he cheated on me with a white girl. I believe we argued, and fought for weeks, but at the end of it all, I knew I loved him, I knew he was the one for me because the one thing that I hate the most, is what he did and I was still there". Black women do these things, they stick around even when they have been hurt drastically, and for Crystal that was it for her, but she fussed, she fought and she is still there 2 years later.

W are the backbone, we are the queens, and no matter what anyone says, we are stronger and that is why relationships last, and that is also why they fail. You have some Black women who are not what I am describing, just the same as we have plenty of good men out there, but at the end of the day we are still going to be categorized at strong. In any relationship it takes two to make it succeed, and not succumb to the hard times, and temptation. I can sit hear and talk about why we nag, but there are different solutions to every situation.

Just think about it, we lived so long behind the face of others, isn't it time to appreciate what we have and who we are.