Being a woman, particularly an African American woman with a big booty and a nice shape, it is hard to get males and women alike to extend the type of respect that they should.
It never fails to walk down the street and have someone honk a horn at you, say "hey girl" or come up to you attempting to "spit game," because of particular body part or your shape. Some people may say that it is not disrespectful and some women may like it, but it is far from the respect that women deserve. There are times when people make the comment that what we wear determines the type of attention we seek, and in some cases that may be true but in many it is not. Regardless of what a woman decides to wear, it does not give anyone the heads up to disrespect her, hell it may be hot as hell out that day, and she may have wanted to wear some short shorts and a tank tee. That doesn't mean she is a hoe, bust down or a hooch and it damn sure doesn't mean that guys or females get to disrespect her.
On top of that having "assets" also opens the door for women to be disrespectful towards other women because of their fugures. How many times have I had women "hate on me" because of my "assets," many. That is just pathetic, because none of uus can control how we were made, and I know I am not made at my genetics, but why does how we are made determine if some people jion the "hate on me" team? These are questions that I have yet to get an affirmative answer to because the haters don't want to comment on themselves. i know this much if I see a woman "doing the damn thing," I will extend a compliment with the quickness, but hey that's just me.
Hey, sometimes even extending a genuine comliment towards another woman is taken wrong, but that is a different article all together. However, check out this video and see what women go through with having "assets." Then check out the video with Buffy the Body who makes the disrespect that women go through, acceptable. She really needs to listen to what she says, and not say it anymore.
Buffy the Body Video
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